Mic drop moment.... you're not the same old Pete! Your wife has left you because of your new beliefs, you're causing friction with friends and family because of your new beliefs, authorities dont believe your accusations and you've resigned from a perfectly stable and secure IT job due to beliefs which your boss thinks are insane. YOU are the one who's changed Pete, no one else - why cant you see this? You should really seek support of a Cognitive behavioural therapist who will be able to help with examining your beliefs more carefully, reducing your distress, improving your coping skills and a general more positive outlook in daily life... Give yourself some much needed TLC and block out all the noise before relationships get damaged even more...